You can eat an elephant – just take one bite at a time.

Before my husband passed away, we had plans for his office – replace the old carpet with wood flooring, get a new, smaller desk, and provide comfortable seating. As my husband said, in its current state, it just wasn’t set up for the way we work. So, when he passed away, I decided to go ahead with our plans.

Here are some things I’ve learned during this project:

1) Before you put new flooring in a room, you have to clear the room – of everything. When you move everything to other rooms in the house, those rooms will become less usable until the project is done and the “things” can be returned. Also, not everything will fit in the other rooms, so you need the garage.

2) If you plan to store the extra things in the garage, you must first clean the garage.

3) When you clean the garage, you need help.

4) If you fill the recycle container too full, it may fall into the garbage truck and disappear.

5) Once the new flooring has been installed, the new desk assembled and the new chair delivered, you still will have twenty-four boxes of books and memorabilia to move from the garage, unpack and place in the book shelves.

6) The now empty boxes have to be broken down and recycled. Be careful not to over-load the recycle container. The company will only provide you with one replacement container before they begin charging you a fee.

As I worked through this project, I sometimes had to reassure myself it was the right thing to do. I could have left the room just the way it was when my husband died, but it would have become a sad daily reminder of his absence, a very lonely place. I know he would like the new room.

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